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What RIDICULOUS Things Do Rich People BLOW Their Money On?

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Speaker 1: What do rich people spend money on that we could

never imagine exists? A quote-unquote household chief of staff? Not

a butler, but a logistical CEO for their personal lives

who manages the pilots, the yacht crew, the multiple estate managers,

the nannies, the art curator, and the person who makes

sure the fridge in their fourth home is stocked before

they arrive. They're buying a complete insulation from the friction

of reality. I guess money can't buy happiness, but it

can buy complete insulation from the friction of reality. And

that's basically the same exact thing, right? And before I forget,

other me's on Rufus Stories doing what he does best,

unpacking some crazy relationship stories. It's a good time, I promise.

Links in the description if you're down. Alright, back to

the stories. Story 2. Knew this one dude who bought

a vacant piece of land in the Hollywood Hills just

to pour asphalt over it so his guests had a

valet parking spot right next to the mansion we were

throwing a huge party at. The asphalt had just a

few days to dry before cars started showing up. It

came close to the wire and the guests in their

exotic imported sports cars never knew. Also, the same guy

would have sushi from Japan from the Tsukiji market flown

into the US and before eating it would need to

see a certification that the fish was caught no more

than 15 hours prior. He would also pay the restaurant,

can't mention what restaurant specifically or even where, tons of

money to close down so he could eat the sushi

in peace alone with his wife. The guy was a

schmuck by the way. Story three, family offices. They hire

a team of people to manage their wealth and office

with their own investment bankers, lawyers, accountants, financial planners, etc.

I was approached as a junior slash mid-level lawyer to join.

I wasn't that interested, so I asked for a good

pay bump. I think it was around USD $ 280, 000 per year,

not including bonuses and perks. This was some years ago.

They agreed. Imagine how much more senior bankers, accountants are

getting paid. And then imagine being wealthy enough to pay

for an office full of them. Story four, childcare for

their autistic children. I dated a woman a decade ago

who was a PhD in child psychology and she made

a literal fortune being a babysitter for ultra wealthy kids

on the spectrum. Just to take an ad hoc FaceTime

call if the kids were having a meltdown when she

wasn't there. It was $ 500 every 15 minutes. Took multiple

of these calls daily. Sometimes a dozen different 5-10 minute

calls in a day from the same family. Billed in

at the start of the first minute of each 15

minute block. A 16 minute call was $ 1, 000. It was $ 1, 000

an hour for her to be one-on-one with the kids.

And folks had her booked out for months to watch

their kids on weekends, date nights, etc., And she had

a racket where she had a playgroup and would get

all of them together in a pack, and each kid

was $ 500 an hour, and she'd have like 10 to

15 of them. She was amazing with kids and had

an incredible way of dealing with extreme cases, but she

was making like $ 4 or $ 6 million a year, which

was pretty ridiculous for playing board games most of the time.

Story 5. 24-7 nanny coverage per kid with 3 kids.

They had 12 total nannies on staff, plus or minus

at any given time to cover weekends, holidays, days off, etc.,

I used to work at their kids' private school in

the IT department and they hired me to do some

IT stuff at their home, as well as tutor one

of their older kids. Instead of paying me cash, they

would forward my email bill to the family office in

NYC and I would get an overnight FedEx package with

a check every week. They also got divorced and bought

mansions next to each other for the kids' sake. The

mom found one for sale that she liked and then

went to the neighbor directly next door and made them

an offer I guess they could not refuse. I have

dealt with many high net worth people and they are

usually schmucks and so are their kids. This particular family

was unfazed by their wealth. They were the nicest, most

down to earth people and their kids were awesome. Before

doing some work for them, I knew the kids from

school and you would have never known how wealthy and

privileged they were. They were the nicest, most humble, helpful

kids with a crazy amount of empathy for their age.

They were an old money family, very old money, and

I think it just never bothered them. They did a

great job raising their kids, as is evident by the

fact that you would have thought they were still married,

as they attended all school functions together, talked to each other, etc.

I only found out they were divorced when I was

helping their son for the first time, and he said

he needed to run to his dad's house to get something.

The private school I was working at needed to raise

$ 10 million for an expansion. This family offered to match

all donations up to $ 5 million. Not only did they

match every donation even after crossing $ 5 million, they also

donated another $ 10 million to the school, so over $ 15

million total out of their pocket to the school. We

only found out about their donations a few years ago.

At the time, we were told it was an anonymous

matching gift and an anonymous donation. They did not want

anything named after them or any recognition at all while

their kids were still going to school there. I guess

old money is often much more grounded than new money.

Story 6. I used to work for a privately held

company run and owned by one individual who was earning

$ 2- 3 million a year. He asked me if I was

interested in making extra money running errands for him. One

of the errands was to measure the built-in bookshelves in

his massive new house, then going to Barnes & Noble

to buy enough books to fill every inch of the shelves.

The only prerequisite was that the books had to make

him appear well-read and intelligent. He gave me a credit

card and I spent six hours loading a U-Haul with $ 11, 000

worth of books. After that, I spent an entire weekend

arranging the books on the shelves. He called me out

back a couple of weeks later to rough up the

books because it was obvious they had never been read.

All in all, he paid me around $ 5, 000 plus meals

while I was there to make strangers think he read

a lot. Story 8. One thing rich people spend their

money on that you might not realize is hiding their wealth,

and they often do it for their extended family. It

can be a business under a shell corporation or an

investment fund run through a series of other operations. Family

members contribute money in one way or another to a

business or charity that moves the money around the world anonymously.

Detailed records are kept about who contributed what and how

much their investment is worth. It's not criminal activity they

were hiding, it's the identity of their owner, the source.

On paper, this one family member is only a millionaire,

but they have control of hundreds of millions in wealth

of various forms all around the world. Someone might be

just your average cardiologist in the US, but they and

their family own a large portion of a factory in

Taiwan through a holding company. The holding company is mostly

owned by an investment firm who is owned by another

private equity group that's mostly owned by an anonymous group

in a trust, for example. It can get very complicated.

They don't directly pay taxes on their wealth or income

and it's not attached to them directly, so it's very

unlikely they will lose it if they get divorced or

some other financial catastrophe. Story 8. Support staff and luxury

goods that make TV luxury goods look cheap and paltry

by comparison. The ultra-wealthy have 24-hour concierge access that gets

them the best seats at the best restaurants or events

on the planet. They fly private and have fleets of

luxury cars at their disposal. The best part is their

entire world moves with them from one estate to another.

Duplicate wardrobes and a team brings their essentials from one

place to another so they don't have to adapt their

expectations for different locations. Just top-level everything from security to

private chefs to executive assistants, plus lawyers and investment advisors

as well as public image managers to protect their reputations

and public image. Story 9. Rent a private island with

a personal chef, helipad, and a team to look after

the palm trees. Your own underground bunkers in case of

an apocalypse with a swimming pool and a wine cellar.

An oyster and lobster farm so you always have fresh

from your own sea. Cooled garages for your supercar collection

because a regular garage is too warm for carbon parts.

Petting zoos with giraffes, flamingos, or even tigers. Gold toilet paper. Yes,

this exists. 22 karat gold in the form of a roll.

Story 10. In my country, a billionaire's youngest son is

fond of animals. For him, he got a private zoo

created on hundreds of acres of land. Animals from all

over the world are present in his private zoo. Also,

for the same son's wedding, he got Justin Bieber to

J-Lo perform in his private event. He hired every big-name

singer from our country to sing live in the background.

It was like Spotify, but live. Singers were performing their

hit songs live. Veteran musicians with egos the size of

moons entertaining guests like props. Story 11. I sometimes work

for a family who have 10,000-plus employees. They have a driver,

a live-in chef, housemaids, 24-7 security who sit in a

room with CCTV day and night, multiple gardeners who live

in outhouses, and various other staff. However, that is nothing

to what my sister does for a living. She is

one of five PAs to a Saudi prince and one

of the richest men on earth. I am a sole

trader living in a little three bed in the east

of England eating into my overdraft each month and when

he heard we were having a kid, he bought us

like 5,000 pounds worth of stuff and Hermes' toys for

the baby costing about a grand each. Yes, they went

on eBay. Haha. Story 12. It's also about what they

don't spend money on. I've read and seen documentaries about

Quiet Wealth. which is one of the aspects where you

find the difference between millionaires and billionaires. I've seen this

in real life as well when I worked at a

fancy place. Millionaires will attend banquets and gatherings with a $ 100, 000

Gucci handbag and flaunt it around. The billionaires don't carry

bags because their butler has it and many of them

wear clothes with no brand. Story 13. I met a

guy who designed a meeting room on Putin's yacht. The

room is explosion-resistant and bulletproof. It has a bulletproof screen

that slides to divide the room in half and each

side of the meeting room has access from port or

starboard respectively. So two factions who are at war can

safely get on board and discuss their terms. I've also

met several billionaires and they mostly spend their money on

properties and assets, nothing out of the ordinary. I know Pele,

the football player who loves street workers. He was such

a nice guy, I met him twice but he had

a thing for younger women. No wonder he was always

doing ads for Pfizer's ED's medication. Apart from that, billionaires

spend stupid amounts of money to go see the Titanic

or go to space. Story 14. My brother is a

pilot for a really rich guy and they'll send the

plane to do errands like an Instacart delivery person. The

guy just doesn't seem to trust FedEx so he has

his flight staff go pick things up. For example, he

might say, my wife wants this dress, can you go

to NY to pick it up for her? I once

met a guy who had 100 people on his personal payroll.

About 25 of them were in the family office, but

between personal assistants, house managers, cooks, cleaners, drivers, landscaping, construction, yes,

that's a thing, flight staff, physical therapists, tutors, and coaches,

the payroll really adds up. I remember him saying it

was like $ 10 million plus a year payroll just to

manage his life. At one point, I think it was

Eric Schmidt who said in an interview that he had

over 300 people on his personal staff. That was during

peak Google, so maybe it's been scaled down a bit?

Story 15. My wife has a distant relative who is

extremely wealthy with a net worth in the hundreds of millions.

In addition to a full support staff and a personal

chef who caters to the family's different diets, he has

a team of personal assistants, each with a specific role.

One of these assistants, a haggler, handles a variety of

tasks to maximize savings and benefits. Her job includes booking

all of his cars for servicing and repairs to ensure

he's not overcharged, purchasing his luxury items with the right

credit cards and coupon codes to earn maximum points and discounts,

and arranging wholesale deals for the household with various suppliers.

This assistant also leverages her boss's name and reputation, using

a Karen with real reputational damage type of power plant

to get priority treatment, and a remarkable amount of free stuff.

Just by managing his car fleet and negotiating with dealerships,

she likely saves him her salary many times over. The

wholesale deals she secures are incredible, and it's clear that

wealthy people often get more amazing freebies than anyone else.

It's a testament to the idea that even the wealthiest

individuals can be incredibly frugal. Story 16. I had a

buddy in college whom I met freshman year. We knew

he had money, but he was never flashy or anything.

He was a really down-to-earth guy. However, we could tell

his parents were well off. For sophomore year spring break,

we went to his vacation house in Florida, which was

located in the Keys. When we pulled up, we were

all thinking, damn, man, I didn't realize your parents had

that much money. The house was on a canal, and

on the other side was an even bigger house with

a large yacht parked next to it. His dad came

out and said, yeah, I never see that guy. He

only bought that house to have a place to park

his yacht. Now that's what I call F you money.

Story 17. As an inspector, I've seen my share of

impressive homes, including some with as many as 18 bedrooms

and 18 bathrooms. One house had a full-size in-ground pool

in the basement complete with a gym and sauna. It

also featured a movie theater, a concession room with a

popcorn and candy machine, a full-size lounge, a bar area,

and a secret wine cellar. The basement also included three

guest bedrooms with attached baths, a chef's kitchen with a dumbwaiter,

three utility rooms, and three elevators. In the sub-basement, there

was a space with a 15-foot high ceiling that was

being prepared to be a ballroom with projectors on the

ceiling that could project images onto all the walls, making

it look like you were outside or surrounded by paintings. Essentially,

the owner was building a subterranean holodeck ballroom, and that

was just his basement. He also bought the house behind his,

tore it down, and put in another in-ground pool with

a pool house. He even paid the utility company to

bury the power poles and wires. Another homeowner had two

chandeliers in his dining room that cost $ 150, 000 each. After

they were installed, he didn't like the color, so he

sent them back to the company and paid $ 50, 000 each

for an acid bath to change the color of the metal.

The most recent house I saw had about 4,500 feet

of LED tape light for cove lighting in every room, hallway,

and everywhere else. The electric bill must be insane, but

for these people, $ 50, 000 is just a drop in the bucket.

Story 18. A $ 30 peanut butter and jelly sandwich. I

have a friend who went to a real-life butler school

and now works at a high-end resort in the Berkshires.

He says that even though the guests are incredibly wealthy,

kids are still kids. A common request from the children

is a simple peanut butter and jelly sandwich. However, the

ingredients are anything but simple. The bread is artisanal, made

from organic, fair-trade, hand-ground wheat. The peanut butter is from

specially selected, hand-roasted peanuts, ground and jarred by some quote-unquote

one-eyed holy man or something equally extravagant. By the time

you add up all these high-end components, a single PB

& J sandwich for a 9-year-old whose parents are hedge

fund managers ends up costing around $ 30. Story 19. I

met a woman through some non-profit work and we hit

it off. When I mentioned that I like skiing, she

told me her father owned a private ski resort, an

entire mountain, in Aspen, Colorado. I was amazed and thought

she must be mistaken, assuming it was just a small

hill or a ski-in, ski-out condo. A while later, I

ran into her at another event and she invited me

to her dad's mountain. I accepted, still thinking it would

be something modest. I was completely wrong. His private driveway

is a heated road that's 8 to 10 miles long.

To get to the top of the mountain, he uses

snowcasts and helicopters and then he skis down. The entire

place is heated and fully staffed with a guide, a medic,

a butler, a chef, and a maid all year round,

even though no one had used it for a few

years when we visited in 2019. The fridge was constantly

stocked and restocked, which led to a lot of food waste.

When I saw her again about a year ago, she

told me she didn't think anyone had used the cabin

since our trip. Story 20. It's not about spending money

the way most of us think. Sure, the fuel for

a yacht or a jet might cost a few hundred

thousand dollars a year or even a few million for

a 150-foot vessel, but that's just chump change to them.

These individuals often spend their money on throwing exclusive parties,

usually for fundraising. They might spend millions to help build

infrastructure in another country or host fundraisers for politicians, from

governors to presidents or even foreign dignitaries. To attract more

guests and raise more money for their causes, they'll hire

people that most of us consider rich, like a famous musician,

to perform. Their spending also goes towards things like month-long

private vacations in faraway countries, where they'll mingle with royalty, politicians,

and other powerful people. These aren't the influencers you see

on Instagram. They are people you've likely never heard of

because they value their privacy and prefer to stay out

of the public eye. In my experience, they are not

flashy at all. Story 21. I have a family member

who is minorly rich. They don't have to worry about

the cost of vacations. They drive well-known luxury cars, and

they live in a high-cost-of-living area in a house that's

about 6,000 square feet. What really stands out to me

are the little details. For instance, he has the best

coffee machine ever installed directly into the wall that makes

every kind of coffee with the touch of a button.

It's not as good as a high-end coffee shop, but

it's close enough when you can have it in your

own kitchen. All the appliances are hidden behind custom panels

that match the cabinetry. For example, the refrigerator looks just

like a pantry door. The artwork and flowers in the

house are changed out on a regular basis. There's currently

an 1100-year-old Persian bowl sitting in a guest room. Whenever

I'm there, I pick it up just for the fun

of it. I might even drink out of it next time.

I could go on, but it's the small things that

really show their wealth. Story 22. If you look up

Becca Bloom on TikTok, you'll get a glimpse into a

world that is unimaginable to a normal person. She is

the daughter of a billionaire and her fiancé is also

an ultra high net worth individual. She probably spends $ 30, 000

to $ 50, 000 a week on her shopping hauls. She shows

how her private chef prepares food for her cat and

then she'll feed the cat $ 50 to $ 100 worth of

food per meal. She regularly eats $ 200 worth of caviar

with her breakfast for quote-unquote seasoning. She has some exotic

imported items that are just normal to her. She was

currently doing unboxings for wedding gifts she received from her

rich friends and family, and it's just unreal. In some

of her videos, she'll be packing her lunchbox, and people

will point out that her lunchbox is a crazy designer

item that costs $ 3, 000. Yes, she doesn't even mention it

in the video because it's just normal to her. She'll

casually mention that she got a new bag, and when

you look it up, it costs $ 75, 000. She'll discuss how

she gets invited to private shopping events where a place

like Ernie's will give her advanced buying access to new

lines or first dibs on limited edition jewelry and so on.

Sometimes she just casually drops a new piece of jewelry

she got and it's literally a $ 2- 3 million piece. Seriously,

go be mesmerized. Her name is Becca Bloom. Story 23.

I have a wealthy friend who just hired a relocation

concierge This firm advised them on where to move to

protect their portfolio, how to set up operations in these

new places, and then help them execute the entire plan.

They ultimately decided to live in Puerto Rico for six

months a year to take advantage of capital gains tax,

free living, Malta for three months, and the mainland U.S.

for the remaining three months. They moved their businesses and

properties into trusts and then purchased properties and hired staff

in both Malta and Puerto Rico. And if you're enjoying

the video learning a thing or two from these stories,

don't forget to hit that subscribe and like button for

more videos just like this. Story 24. I used to

work in an extremely high-end condominium building. One day, one

of my favorite residents, a small, older woman with a

super sweet cute dog, was standing in front of me.

Another resident, a gentleman who was about a foot taller

than her, walked up and they started chatting about their boats. Man,

oh yeah, we just came back from the Bahamas. We

docked in Nassau and had a great time. Woman, oh,

I love the Bahamas. It's amazing every time we go.

We're going again soon. Man, oh, what part are you

guys docking in? Nassau? Woman, no, I wish. We can't

dock in Nassau, unfortunately. man. Why not? Woman, uh, our

boat is too big. The look on his face was

absolutely priceless. This tall, extremely wealthy man was staring down

at this small, five-foot-two woman in utter bewilderment. He couldn't

comprehend that her boat could be both bigger than his

and so big that it couldn't even dock in the

port of Nassau. I knew from other sources that she

and her husband had a place in the Bahamas with

a dock built specifically for their yacht. That was probably

one of the most hilariously rich things I've ever witnessed.

Story 25. I'd like to add two more points about

the very rich. First, they are often exceptionally stingy and

will not spend money unless it's absolutely necessary. This is,

in part, how they become even wealthier. A prime example

is Donald Trump, who has a well-documented history of cheating, underpaying,

and even failing to pay thousands of contractors. However, it's

worth noting that he's more of a low-class grifter and

not in the same category as the truly ultra-rich we've

been discussing. Second, the very rich often receive extravagant gifts

that would never be offered to the rest of us.

These can include multi-hundred-thousand-dollar cars, expensive jewelry and watches, and

vacations with private jets and huge yachts, all for free.

They also get complimentary access to things like Michelin star

dining and the top suites and five-star hotels. Some of

this is a quid pro quo arrangement, while other times

the giver, often a business or corporation, is seeking publicity

by being associated with the recipient or wants to curry

favor with them. Story 26. My aunt is a personal

assistant for a multi-billionaire. She once told me that he

built a commercial kitchen on his property for their private

chefs to cook in. They already have a full chef's

kitchen inside the main house, but his wife doesn't want

to have to smell the food being cooked. This same

man also bought all the homes directly next to his

house using the expanded property to build a full 18-hole

golf course that backs up to the mountain his house

is built in front of. My aunt said the plan

is to eventually sell it as a resort property when

his family moves on in a decade or so. Story 27.

I worked for a family over 20 years ago as

an interior decorator, organizer, A handyman, always on staff, and

a wedding present for their new son-in-law, a radio station.

I would love to have a handyman available whenever I

needed one. Before I started working for the family, I

had to pass a background check and sign a non-disclosure agreement.

I have so many stories where I just thought, well,

I guess I'll do it if you're willing to pay me.

Story 28. I had a client for whom we were

doing a huge addition to an already giant house, which

was 9,000 square feet. We were adding a new primary

bathroom and closet suite over a three-car garage and more

off the first floor. The husband was going to be

away on a trip for one of the 16 weeks

we were working there, so the conversation came up about

where he was going. He said, I go to Las

Vegas once every year. The wife gives me a budget

and I stick to it. His budget? $ 100, 000. Imagine having

that much money to blow once a year as disposable income.

On this same job, I also saw one of the

most ridiculous things. The client had bought full custom cabinets

for the kitchen, a full-service pantry with a sink, range, fridge,

and dishwasher. the laundry room and the mudroom which had

a huge dog washing area, a crazy detail in itself.

But what was even crazier was when the owner of

the design company that provided the cabinets showed up in

a Maserati MC20. He pulled into the driveway, looked at

me and said, I think that car is nicer than mine.

Story 29 I'm an electrician and I've seen some wild

stuff on the custom houses we work on. I don't

work on them often, but when I do, it's crazy.

One house had lights next to the front door that

weren't powered by electricity. The electricity just started the flame.

The light itself was fueled by natural gas. Another house

had a multi-level basement. It had a regular basement and

a deeper one that was a full basketball court. In

that same house, they spent $ 400, 000 on smart home switches

and another $ 150, 000 on appliances. Their budget for switches alone

was more than my entire budget for my first house.

Story 30. It's not so much about things that we

could never imagine exist, but more about things we wouldn't

even think of. For instance, there are four teams, people

who travel ahead to a location to ensure the security

team has good access and that the food meets your standards,

with the menu adjusted if it doesn't. There are also

assistants who not only plan your private flight and car

trip to your other home, but also make sure the

person in charge of your wardrobe got it to the

destination before you arrived, or if you already have a

second set of clothes that they've been picked up from

your tailor or custom designer, and if you have a

second wardrobe at a different location, it's rotated and altered

as needed. That meeting you have in Tokyo? No worries,

your visa was approved before you even landed, a private

rental has already had its security sweep, and everything you

might crave has already been flown in. Your whims have

been anticipated and there are 15 restaurants where you already

have a private room reserved in case you feel like

going out. Change your mind and want to stay in?

No problem. The chef was flown in three days ahead

of time and has already bought and prepped everything to

make your favorite dishes. There are so many little things

that are just taken care of because that's what you

pay people to do. Story 31. A friend of a

friend interviewed to be the chief of staff for the

Zuckerberg-Chan family and one of the interview questions was about

their sheep herding dogs which I assume are border collies.

The family wants to keep the dogs enriched and stimulated,

so if they asked if the candidate would be willing

to occasionally arrange for sheep to be flown in for

the dogs to herd. Part of me doesn't believe this story,

but another part of me feels that this is exactly

the kind of eccentric, Aspie-like thing that Zuckerberg would suddenly

get into. Story 32. I work at wealthy people's houses

all the time. There's a lot of stuff that I

see that makes me think, there's a real disconnect here.

But one general observation that really sticks out is the

sheer number of people they pay to do things all

the time. As an HVAC guy, I'll be on site

and they'll have a nanny, a housekeeper, someone pressure washing

the house, a pool guy, and a landscaper all there

at the same time. This isn't in the midst of

a home remodel, this is just a regular Tuesday. Most

of us might have someone working on our home once

a year, if that, but these people will have 10

or more workers a week. Story 33. Here are some

first-hand experiences I've witnessed. Calling in favors. I've seen someone

knock on the door of a Michelin-starred restaurant and demand

that the famous chef leave his home and prepare a

meal for their party without any notice. He did. Controlling

the calendar. Another person had a Cirque du Soleil cancel

or move a day from their tour to perform for

their family. Navigating bureaucracy. I've also seen a wealthy individual

get a city to approve an event at a historic

protected site. Bespoke everything. For these people, everything is made

bespoke for their family. Literally everything. Personalized delivery. Everything is shipped, mailed,

or delivered by a personal courier. Cars as commodities. A

car that costs $ 200, 000 to $ 300, 000 is treated like a

seasonal purchase from Temu. Architectural marvels. Homes aren't just built,

they are researched and constructed to be architectural marvels. Full-time staff.

There are aides and assistants for every aspect of life,

mostly full-time, on-demand staff who keep everything perfect so that

you don't have to waste time asking for it. These

were people with close to $ 100 million to $ 200 million

and generational wealth, so I can't even imagine what billionaires do.

Story 34. They have people for everything. If they have

five houses, they need people to manage them, handymen, gardeners,

and housekeepers. If they have dogs, they need groomers, walkers,

and more. If they have kids, they need tutors, nannies,

and trainers. If they own horses, they need trainers and

stable hands. If they like cars, they have on-site mechanics

and detailers. If they want a yacht, they need a

crew of at least 10 people, including a captain, navigator, cook, mechanics,

and housekeeping staff. Wealthy people employ an insane number of

people to maintain their opulent lifestyles. Not saying it makes

it right, but they simply have to. Most of the time,

the labor cost to maintain their hobbies and eccentricities is

significantly higher than the initial cost of the items themselves.

Story 35. I used to work for a high-end wedding

catering company outside of NYC. One bride insisted that her

wedding planner spend an extra $ 60, 000 to line the walkway

from the reception area to the bar and then to

the entryway with special vintage lamps. The planner had to

go all over to find them. Keep in mind, my

company's catering services alone usually cost $ 70, 000 to $ 100, 000 for

just the food and beverages. Another wealthy couple bought their

daughter an apartment in Chelsea as a graduation gift and

bought their son a sailing company so he could work there.

Story 36 On French YouTube, I watched an interview with

a person who organizes vacations for extremely wealthy people. Some

of the wildest things he mentioned were blocking a runway

for a view. Upon landing in Nice via private jet,

they would stop on the runway, open the door, and

just sit there, enjoying the view. They would stay for

a while and pay the fines for blocking the runway

without a second thought. A fleet of yachts. A client

once rented two massive yachts, one blue and one white,

so his wife could choose which color she wanted on

the day they went out. Paying for everyone's hotel. A

client threw a huge party in a house near a

luxury hotel that cost $ 600 per night. Due to noise complaints,

the client paid for the rooms of all the guests

staying at the hotel. A Coca-Cola run. In a different interview,

some Americans believed that Coca-Cola didn't exist in Europe. Upon

landing via private jet, they exclaimed, oh crap, we forgot

the Coca-Cola. They then proceeded to send the private jet

back to the US and return with cans of Coca-Cola.

Story 37. You're asking the wrong question. The simple answer

is that the ultra-rich ask themselves, what can I spend

money on that I haven't thought of yet? That's essentially

a direct quote. Then anything you can possibly imagine, there

will be human parasites who work to get that result,

much like Jeffrey Epstein and his network. The real question is,

what do the extremely rich do with all their wealth

when it far exceeds their ability to spend? They buy assets. We,

all the rest of us, then struggle against each other

more and more for these same assets while they do

the only wise thing to do with excessive wealth. Diminishing

supply means greater demand for available resources, and as resources shrink,

the cost becomes too expensive. We currently live in this

world where oligarchs are ruling and most of us are

just beginning to open our eyes as we awaken. Be

happy and at peace with your life. That is the

only real wealth. Story 38. My family member is part

of numerous clubs, dinner clubs, resorts, golf clubs, and more.

To get his money's worth, he has to spend $ 10, 000

eating at his home resort clubhouse each month. So when

I get an invitation at the end of the month,

I know I'm in for a real treat. Another example

is his sports season tickets. He has them for all

the major sports in multiple cities. I'll be in places

I didn't even know he visited and he'll offer me

50-yard line seats. When I sit in them, everyone around

me asks me if I'm a ghost or a billionaire

because they're so used to seeing the seats empty. This

is especially true if that city is hosting a future

Super Bowl or some other big one-time event. If having

the season tickets guarantees him the right to buy tickets

for those special events, he gets them and just lets

all the other regular season tickets go to waste or

gives them away as gifts. Story 39. Wealthy people often

buy multiples of the same clothes, like a sweater they

particularly like or a piece of jewelry, and then ship

a set to each of their homes so they don't

have to pack. They also use businesses that handle all

the maintenance for them. I know a guy who had

guests at one of his house in a wealthy area

while he was away in Italy. There were hornets in

the yard and they stung the kids. The guests texted

him about it and he texted his contact. Within 15 minutes,

a team of exterminators showed up and cleared out the nest.

Story 40. We sold commercial gym equipment and had a

multi-billionaire client who was building a $ 50 million mansion and

compound in California. He had to have all the equipment

from his gym from a specific brand that was no

longer a business and it had to be white even

though they never produced the machines in that color. He

paid 10 times what the machines originally sold for in

their prime. He worked with a current manufacturer to rebuild

the classic machines and then had them powder-coated white and

had the old emblems and weight stacks recreated. His project

manager also tipped our installation guys $ 1, 000. Story 41. I

met a guy while traveling overseas who was a very

successful online professional poker player. He was genuinely confused when

it came up that my travel companions and I had

planned and booked our holiday ourselves. When I told him

that it wasn't hard to plan a trip yourself instead

of using a travel agent, he still looked confused. He

explained that he just told his boss. what he wanted

to do, and because he was so rich, his bank

organized his and his partner's passports, flights, and travel bookings

for their six-month world holiday. He was genuinely confused that

the average person didn't have this service. I also found

out that he had a second apartment in the same

building that he used as his office because his girlfriend

didn't like the way he behaved while working. Story 42.

I used to work for a plumbing company that serviced

the homes of the ultra-rich. On my first day, we

went to the future home of a beer CEO, and

that's where I learned two things. First, no homes in

that specific area could exceed 10,000 square feet. Second, that

rule only applied to the above-ground portion of the house.

This meant that many properties had massive basements used for

various purposes. Reportedly, one property had four homes above ground

that were all connected underground. In the case of this

beer CEO, he had a massive basement that was meant

to double as a garage. Another thing I learned was

that a different ultra-wealthy CEO had a quote-unquote pit basement

underneath his house with multiple pistons installed to lower the

windows facing the sea for parties. I love telling people

this story after I show them the photos. Story 43.

I work in a high-end cabinetry factory and we make large, expensive,

and fancy kitchen cabinets for wealthy people. On average, a

kitchen from us costs $ 80, 000 and that's just for the

wood cabinets. It doesn't include installation, plumbing, or electrical work.

What really caught my eye with this question is that

we recently completed a show kitchen. This is a huge,

expensive kitchen that will sit unused in one of our

clients' many mansions. Its sole purpose is to be a

showpiece for guests who might visit on occasion. This particular

kitchen was painted high-gloss black and cost well over $ 100, 000.

Story 44. I have a family member who probably has

a net worth in the high eight figures or maybe

a little less. He's very secretive about it, but whatever.

This man had a custom home built that was over 4,000

square feet. But then, he filled his walk-in closet and

all the guest closets with clothes. This started to bother him,

so one day, he was looking out his window and

saw his neighbors, and the thought occurred to him. If

I can see them, they can see me. So, he

went looking for a new place to build an almost

identical house, just with bigger closets. Apparently, the mayor of

the city he lives in was planning to have a

house built on a certain plot, but changed his mind.

My family member was told about the open plot and

bought it. Since it was in a new part of

the community and in the middle of a cul-de-sac with

three plots for the building, He bought the other two

as well, so he wouldn't have any neighbors in the future.

Story 45. I think money spoils everyone. I just listened

to a podcast where celebrities discussed what they bought when

they realized they had money. One celebrity said they didn't

care about that stuff when they first became famous, but

now they love to spend money on all sorts of things.

Skincare products, diamonds, expensive shoes, designer handbags, etc. Another bought

a Ferrari as a teen and then kind of wrote

off capitalism, which I love. One bought first edition books,

which I also appreciate. A guest on the podcast said

she bought a house for herself, fair, a house for

her family, fair, and a Jeep for herself, and that

all of those felt necessary. No details were given about

the houses, but a Jeep is not specifically a necessity.

She then turned and said that once she made it big,

she started wearing designer clothes, but doesn't like that. I

love the cognitive dissonance here. I'm not mocking her. I

genuinely appreciated that she was thinking about it. And I

was surprised that others on the podcast didn't spend much

time on that topic, but it was good to hear.

This feeling will probably fade in a few years when

she gets used to being rich. I just can't imagine

wasting money on looking good with designer clothing or cars.

I can imagine the first I made a purchase being flashy.

But ideally, none of us need to peacock. You can't

convince me that a designer anything will make me happier

with my life. I can kind of understand the books though.

Story 46. I used to clean a house in Croydon

that wasn't particularly spectacular, just a typical detached family home. However,

you could tell it was a wealthy family from the

small details. They had three children, two cars, and only

the husband had a job. The wife, who hired me

because she knew someone I knew from a local shop,

was always at home taking care of the kids. Eventually,

she started sharing with me details about their family trips

during the summer, and I learned they went to some

very nice places. I remember one time she told me

her husband would be away for about a month without

any interruptions. Apparently, he belonged to some kind of club

where every year they would meet on an island near

Korea to watch some kind of weird games where people

would pass away trying to win a prize consisting of

a ridiculous amount of money. Story 47. My husband's stepdad

is rich and as a result, my mother-in-law also benefits.

It wasn't until I visited for the first time that

I learned what a duvet actually was. If you don't know,

it's a cover for a comforter. I was so confused.

I thought, a comforter is a cover. I was under

the impression that a duvet was another layer like a

sheet that goes under the comforter. My mother-in-law laughed and

explained that a duvet is a cover for a comforter.

I was still bewildered. I don't know how many people

I've had in my house, but I don't know many

who have been in my room or who I would

care about the look of my bed covers for. A

duvet apparently makes it easier to wash because it's a

cover that gets dirty instead of the bulky comforter which

takes up a lot of space. My little poor mind

was blown when my mother-in-law told me she spent $ 100

on a goose down duvet. The comforter wasn't even that expensive.

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